Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Spirituality an essential part of the balance


Friendship House, Prince Rupert, B.C.

PHOTO CREDIT Mack McColl
  
Spirituality is an essential part of finding the balance on the basketball court and around the Friendship House in Prince Rupert, B.C., said George Sampson.

"We start every outing with a prayer to thank the Creator for all we've received. This Tsimshian territory is very blessed with the abundance of salmon, berries, clams, and cockles."

George Sampson is the 20 year Community Worker for Friendship House in Prince Rupert, B.C., and works on education programs for urban youth, often around the 'zen' of basketball. Sampson said, "Wellness," is what it's all about.

Whereas hockey or soccer may constitute dominant sporting activities in some major Canadian cities, on the west coast, especially in Prince Rupert, said, George, the game is basketball.

Sometimes the dribbling stops, he noted, and "We introduce Elders to teach respect, life skills, awareness of the environment, survival skills and outdoorsmanship," always using the "sublime" approach, said Sampson, to impart wisdom.

He said, "We teach youth from grades 7 to university. I work with Elders to teach youth the important social messages about honour, respect, dignity," and, facts about nutrition and wellness, "and, I teach patience," he smiled.

The key one, said Sampson, is wellness. Elders deliver messages to youth in oral history form, "How do you harvest seaweed? How do you harvest oolicans? How do you harvest deer? How do you gather berries? How do you weave a basket, or make a hat?" (It rains a lot in Prince Rupert.)

Sampson has seen teachings travel through the community after enriching the lives of Elders and youth alike. Youth are sometimes struggling, and teachers and struggling too, said Sampson, "Let's be realistic."

As a Community Worker he delivers programs that bridge gaps and reduce conflict. He workshops with teachers to withhold judgement of the kids. "I tell them to remember experience is the biggest teacher and that we use Elders as a teaching resource to reach kids."

The boxy looking building in the downtown "has an open door policy. We have a lot of Elders who are managing their own lives and have something to share. One of them told me, 'It's no good taking it to the grave.'"

The First Nations include the entire spectrum of Haida, Tsimshian, Nisga'a, Tahltan, Tlingit, and others. "We have no discrimination," said Sampson, a Lax W'Alaams member of Tsimshian Nation.

"Love, support, understanding is available to everyone; coming in here is a free choice. Those who stay learn in a short time that basketball is our tool to make education the top priority."

Friendship House programs focus on participation and getting an education, "either traditional or European style education." Experience has taught him to show a healthy regard for gratitude to the Creator.

Still, Prince Rupert is an urban setting. "Some of the kids are pretty rough. Basically we appeal to those who have a yearning to be around people."

Not everybody is an athlete, said Sampson, so Friendship House hosts programs with theatre and acting, arts and crafts, and Rediscovery Camps.
Mentorship is built within each program resulting in positive influence by senior members, "They are encouraged to share skills, knowledge, and ideas with newcomers."

The centre's usages are open to suggestion and youth can organize themselves parties and dances; operations being self-organized, self-secured, and organizers fully responsible for clean-up and repairs.

Community work at the centre is, "an opportunity to teach youth the finer details about managing their lives," said Sampson. "We can show them how to take responsibility for being an adult. Life is not a beer commercial."

Sampson wants the kids to feel the grasp on reality, "Do something with your life. We are not all going to be doctors, lawyers, and hugely successful business people. Some of us will be welders, labourers, and chambermaids."

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